Words vs Behaviour Scorecard

Pattern check

Tick only statements supported by at least two separate events.

• □Their actions repeatedly match what they say.
• □They become warm when access to me may be ending, then withdraw again.
• □They answer emotional questions but avoid practical commitment.
• □They named a concrete change and followed through consistently.
• □Contact leaves me with more unanswered questions than before.
• □I am using small signals to fill gaps where clear behaviour is missing.
• □There is not enough evidence yet to label the pattern.

Decision prompt

Complete these without predicting their motives.

1. The strongest evidence says:
2. The decision that protects my clarity now is:
3. I would reconsider only if this new evidence appeared:
4. Until then, my next action is: